I am not quite sure how to stick a dildo past your anus and be honest, I’m pretty sure this isn’t something I want to attempt. But I do know that if you’re interested in exploring anal penetration in this manner, some preparation and practice are key to having a positive experience.
To start, I suggest gathering some supplies. For starters, tons of lube is a must – the more, vibrators the better. You’ll also need a dildo with a flared base for safety (so it doesn’t get sucked up by your partner) and some basic educational books on sex and anatomy to help inform your journey.
Next, take some time to get to know your body. This will help you determine the best size and shape for your needs. Take a few minutes before each session to relax and breathe deeply. If you’re feeling tense, take a few more minutes and continue to relax until your body is calm and ready.
When you feel ready, try some basic massage and stimulation of your external anal opening. This may sound odd, but your anal opening is its own unique erogenous zone, so take your time and explore. To help you get even more pleasure out of your dildo play, start with some anal trial or finger play. This will help relax the area and vibrators also help you figure out what kind of stimulation feels best.
Now that you’ve done some warm-up activities, experiment with different dildo shapes and sizes. Try starting with slim-to-medium options and then move up from there. You can even try different textures and sensations in order to find what’s right for you. Use plenty of lube as you explore.
When you find a dildo you’re comfortable with, try lying on your side and inserting it slowly into your anus. Once it’s in, see if you can insert it a little farther each time, going very slowly, until you feel yourself coming to a point where it’s not comfortable anymore. It’s important that you are completely relaxed and not forcing yourself to do anything you don’t want to. As you become more and more experienced with anal dildo play, you’ll find that you can go deeper and deeper.
When it comes to anal dildo play, communication is key. Take breaks when you need them and go at a pace that is comfortable for you. Be aware of any discomfort and go slow until you can identify the source. With practice and dedication, you’ll soon find that you can go even deeper into your pleasure journey.
Looking back, I can see that when it comes to anal dildo play, preparation and patience are essential to having a positive experience. Make sure you take care of yourself, use proper lubrication and go at your own pace to ensure a comfortable and pleasurable experience. When you find yourself becoming more confident, consider using larger toys for more intense sensation. Who knows, you might even surprise yourself with your newfound flexibility!