I recently took the plunge and decided to try out a dildo up my butt. I had heard stories from friends and seen things online about it and I was curious to explore what all the buzz was about. I was in for a surprise, and if you want to experience the same pleasure I did, here’s what you need to know.
To start off, make sure you have the right tools for the job. Get a good lubricant, it’ll make the experience so much smoother and more enjoyable. It also helps to make sure your toy is the right size- don’t go too big, sex dolls start small and work your way up. When you know you have all the right items ready, it’s time to get set up. Make sure your environment is comfortable and safe. It’s a good idea to lay down a towel so you’re not lying on a cold surface and so that you can clean up easily when you’re done.
Next, take some deep breaths and relax. Once you’re comfortable, apply some lube to the dildo and hopefully to youranus as well. It helps so the toy slides in more easily. Now comes the tricky part. As you might expect, taking a dildo up the butt can be a bit of a process. Don’t be discouraged if it doesn’t go in right away- with patience and practice you’ll get there.
Put some lube on your finger and explore your anus before you attempt to take the dildo in. Start off small- a well-lubed finger is a great way to loosen up. Once your sphincter is relaxed and you’re comfortable, you can attempt to insert the toy. Going slowly and breathing deeply can help the toy slide in easier. As your sphincter relaxes you’ll find that the dildo can move in further. You’ll know when you’re ready for more, erm, exciting things.
Try various positions to find the angle of penetration that feels best for you. I found that by rocking my hips I could make a “come hither” motion and move the toy back and forth. It felt amazing! Once you’ve found the motion that works for you, you can gradually increase the size of the toy.
Now comes the best part. Enjoy yourself. Get into your body and focus on the sensations you’re feeling. Listen to the sounds you’re making and bask in the pleasure that comes with exploring yourself in this way. You may even come to the realization that anal play is something that you enjoy and want to explore more.
If you want to have an even better experience with your dildo, you may want to invest in a vibrating one. With varying vibration speeds, you will have a deeper and more satisfying experience. Additionally, if you’re looking for the best sensation during penetration, be sure to get a curved dildo- these are designed to stimulate the prostate for a mind-blowing experience.
Obviously, safety should also be a priority when using a dildo up the butt. Even if you think you know what you’re doing, it’s always good to be prepared. Make sure your dildo is easy to remove and that you don’t have any items that can slip in impractically.
In conclusion, if you want to explore a dildo up your butt, remember to follow these steps and safety tips. Get the right tools, relax, sex toys lube up, and make sure you’re comfortable. Invest in a curved dildo and, if necessary, a vibrating one. Remember to take it slowly and breathe- the winding road to pleasure can sometimes be a fun one. Play around with positions, and explore your body. Find out which sensation works for you and take the time to enjoy yourself.