Mmmm.Taking a long dildo in the ass. I must admit, it can be intimidating at first. But done right, it’s an intense sensation that will leave you feeling satisfied and confident. I’ve got you covered with my personal tips for pleasurable anal play.
First things first: relax. The more relaxed you are, the better. This isn’t going to be easy, and it’s important to take plenty of time. That means taking your time for each step, and giving your body time to adjust as you go. I like to take a hot, soothing bath, and use lube generously.
Finding the right dildo size is also key. Get one that’s too small and it won’t do much for you. Go too big and you may cause some issues down the line – even if you think you can take it, it’s best to start slow and work your way up. I personally like to start on the smaller side and vibrators then go up.
Once you’ve chosen the right dildo size, lubrication is next. Lube is your best friend here. It will make everything much more lubricated and pleasurable. Just make sure you use the insertable kind. Never use Vaseline or other oil-based lubricants. Those will cause irritation and infection.
Now comes the best part – taking it up the ass. The key here is to go slow. Very slowly, very gently, start inserting the tip. Don’t force it, your body needs time to relax and open up. Once you get the tip in, breathe, and take time to adjust. Don’t rush it! Once you’re completely relaxed, you can begin to increase the depth.
At this point, it gets really intense, and you may get intense pleasure. Don’t worry, this is totally normal and natural. Once again, if it starts to get overwhelming, just slow down and adjust. Check in with yourself, if you want to stop, that’s alright too.
Now, you should really get into the rhythm and enjoy. There are a couple of good ways to do this. You can experiment with different speeds and angles, as well as positions. I like to do it in doggie style, as it gives me full control and great access.
The next step is to experiment with different dildos. During anal play, I’d recommend using a variety of sizes, shapes, materials, and colors. I like to try different things each time to find out what I like best.
One thing that really helps make it pleasurable and enjoyable is using a good amount of lube. Apply it liberally to the dildo and your anus for smooth, easy penetration. Also, talk dirty to yourself – it really heightens the experience!
In terms of positions, position experimentation is key. Side-by-side or doggie style are two great positions that provide extra access and control. Feel free to experiment and see what feels good for you.
Finally, it’s all about your attitude. I like to stay positive and enjoy the experience. Getting horny and aroused will help a lot – if it’s feeling good, keep going and keep enjoying!
Now that you know all the basics of taking a long dildo in the ass, go ahead and do it! I know it can be intimidating, but it’s so worth it. With some practice and some patience, you’ll be enjoying that blissful, intense sensation in no time. Give it a try!