I remember the first time I heard about guys using sex dolls. As a woman, I was appalled. After all, I thought, why on earth would they do that? It seemed so artificial and wrong. But then, after I heard more about them, I began to gain a better understanding, and my opinion changed.

For starters, I learned that guys using sex dolls are actually very common these days. Many men prefer to use a sex doll instead of spending time with a real-life human partner, for a variety of reasons – they are often less demanding than a human partner, and can be a great outlet for sex toys fantasies, etc. Plus, some just find the idea of having a doll to be comforting and pleasurable.

But that still begs the question – why go for a sex doll when you can have the real deal? That’s when I found out about the benefits of using a sex doll. For one, sex dolls can provide a seemingly endless amount of sexual pleasure, even if the guy using it may never have tried any of the positions or fantasies they can offer. Plus, unlike with a human partner, the user can experiment freely and explore whatever interests them without the fear of judgement or rejection.

But the benefits don’t end there. I also learned that sex dolls can be a great way to increase a guy’s confidence. There’s something soothing about the sensation of a lifelike sex doll in your arms that can help to boost self-esteem, and some men even feel empowered from the knowledge that they are the ones in control of a sexual situation.

Finally, sex dolls can be a great way to explore and discover sexual preferences. Without the pressure of a human partner, the user can explore any and all avenues which appeal to them, without fear of judgement or repercussion. For those who are uncomfortable or unsure about how to share their desires with a real partner, sex dolls can be a great asset.

Wow, I had no idea that guys using sex dolls had so many potential benefits! I had originally dismissed the concept out of hand, based on a whole host of preconceptions. But now I could understand the appeal.

It seemed to me that guys using sex dolls could be regarded positively, so long as it was done responsibly, ethically and with consideration for others. After all, while sex dolls may be a great escape, they are still no substitute for real, meaningful relationships.

But the thing that struck me the most was that people should be free to express themselves in whatever way feels comfortable and right for them – and if that means having a sex doll, so be it! We should never judge, but instead, simply try to understand where other people are coming from and why they may have chosen a certain path.

My opinion about guys using sex dolls had really been changed. While I thought such an idea was strange at first, now I had come to realize the potential benefits it held. I began to view guys using them as more than just some odd fashion statement; I saw them as people trying to find their own way – as we all must.