It all started when my wife and I were discussing ways to spice up our sex life. We had been married for a few years and wanted to try something new. After a few weeks of talking, we decided to try using a dildo with my wife. It was something neither of us had ever done before and it felt a little intimidating, but also incredibly exciting!
When we went to the store to buy our first dildo, I was so nervous my hands were shaking. We looked at all the different sizes and shapes and had no idea what to choose. Thankfully, the sales associate was incredibly helpful and showed us a few options that would be best. We ended up settling on a curved, smooth dildo with a bulbous head – perfect for clitoral stimulation.
When we got home and finally got around to using our new toy, I was both anxious and eager. We spent some time getting comfortable with each other and then I started rubbing the dildo against my wife’s clitoris. She immediately started moaning with pleasure. I increased the pressure and speed and soon she was begging for more.
The dildo was a huge success. My wife loved the sensation and it brought her to orgasm multiple times. I enjoyed watching her pleasure and couldn’t help feeling aroused. I quickly joined her and before I knew it, we were both gasping with pleasure as we experienced an intense simultaneous orgasm together.
After this experience, we quickly went out and bought more dildos of different shapes, sizes, and colors. We spent hours exploring new ways to please each other and make the experience even more intense. We found that using a dildo with multiple speeds added a new level of pleasure to our foreplay and sex.
Using a dildo has opened up a whole new world of sexual pleasure for us. We now experiment with different positions and techniques when using the toys and oftentimes, it can lead to some of the most powerful and intense orgasms either of us has ever had. This experience has really helped us explore our own boundaries and deepen our connection with each other.
Another topic we have been exploring is different anal toys. We started with a slim silicone plug and have slowly been working our way up to larger and more complex anal toys. We haven’t had any major problems experimenting with anal, but we still take it slow and make sure to use plenty of lube and start with small toys.
Now, when we want to spice things up in the bedroom, we often go out and buy a new toy. We’ve invested in a few higher-end toys that really bring a lot of pleasure. We’ve also started going to sex shops together and my wife loves going and picking out new toys to surprise me with.
Recently, we’ve started introducing bondage into our playtime. We take things slow and have invested in high-quality restraints and blindfolds. We also read up on safety tips for bondage and make sure to practice talking communication when engaging in this kind of play.
We’ve also been experimenting with using sex machines. We had a lot of fun with our first sex machine and found that it’s a fantastic way to add some variety to our sex life. The thrusting and rotating action of the machine was fantastic and we can also attach different dildos and vibrators to the machine for even more intense orgasms. We also enjoy experimenting with temperature play and found that using either warm or cold materials on our bodies can be quite stimulating.
It’s incredible how much our sex life has changed since we started introducing toys into the mix. Using dildos, anal toys, sex machines and bondage has opened up a whole new world of fun, pleasure, and exploration for us. We look forward to discovering new toys and techniques as our sex life continues to evolve.