I was so excited when I found out my partner wanted to introduce pegging into our bedroom routine. He was so enthusiastic about it since it had always been a fantasy of his, and I wanted to make it incredible for him. But one thing that was really perplexing was the question of which way the penis strap-on dildo should be facing when having doggystyle sex.
After a lot of research, I finally arrived at an answer. Y’know, it all comes down to preference. Some people might like the natural shape of the pegging dildo, which usually has a bend to the tip that mimics the natural curve of a penis. This way makes it easier to penetrate the partner, providing more comfort in the doggystyle position.
On the other hand, others might prefer the dildo to be held flat against the stomach before it’s inserted. This mimics the thrusting motion of a real penis, providing more intense sensations. Plus, it allows for better control and stability during penetration.
To be completely honest, though, I tend to prefer the latter. It just gives me a thrill when my partner’s thrusting as if he’s humping me. Plus, it’s sorta like we’re still having regular old-fashioned sex in a more intimate way (at least, that’s how I see it in my head).
But everyone’s different, y’know. Some people might feel more comfortable and be more aroused when their partner is thrusting in a more natural, curved shape. At the end of the day, it all boils down to what makes you and your partner feel good.
And of course, there’s always the third option: sex toys switching it up. Pegging is all about experimentation and exploration, and that includes finding out what works for both the receiver and the person pegging them. There’s no need to limit yourself to one way all the time – mix it up and let your partner do the same. Variety can keep things fun and exciting, so why not give it a try?
Not to mention, changing up the position also makes pegging even more pleasurable and stimulating. Some people find that having their partner kneel or lay down, for instance, allows them to go even deeper, and with more control. Likewise, having the partner who’s being pegged stand up and lean against a wall adds another layer of intensity, as the dildo can be inserted from below in that instance.
And that’s just to name a few. There’s plenty of ways to change up the pegging position to make it more enjoyable. So if you and vibrators your partner are looking for a little more excitement in the bedroom, who knows, maybe pegging is the way to go!